About two weeks ago, we finally went on that much anticipated Orlando trip that we’ve been talking about. It was a blast! And I’d like to give a shout out to my husband for making me book the trip. Back in November before our transfer, my family decided to spend Spring Break in Disney World, so we had a lot to think about. My list of what if’s went something like, “Just in case it works and I get pregnant, what if I’m sick and don’t feel like going. My mom was extremely sick when she was pregnant. What if it’s too risky? What if something happens and we’re away from our doctor? Or what if it doesn’t work, and we would be able to transfer again but we’d be in Disney and we’d have to push it back even further. Or what if…” Brennen stopped me. He reminded me that we can’t let infertility control our lives any more than it already has. He convinced me to book and play it by ear from there…something I’m not so great at. He’s rarely right, but this was one of his finer moments. Thanks, Brennen, for being the voice of reason. Planning that trip, booking dining reservations, reserving FastPasses, and even mapping out all the rest stops on I-10 (ok maybe I went too far) was my saving grace in pushing forward after the miscarriage and surgery.
So after months of counting down to Disney World, we started a new countdown just as our trip was wrapping up. On our last night in Orlando, my cycle showed up, and that got the ball rolling for TRANSFER #3!
The following Monday, I called the clinic to report my cycle, and within a couple hours, Nurse Memphis called with those magic words, “Mrs. Hancock, I have your tentative transfer schedule ready.” Boy, do I love a schedule! Just ask any of those 9 folks that went to Orlando with me. Here’s what the next few weeks look like:
March 19 – Start birth control (done)
April 8 – Stop birth control
April 12 – Baseline ultrasound and blood work; start Estradiol pills
April 26 – Another ultrasound (fingers crossed for a fluffy uterine lining) and more blood work; start PIO injections
May 1 – Tentative Transfer Date!
And 10 days after transfer, the pregnancy test. Now, the transfer date is tentative since it depends on the state of my hormones and uterus at the April 26th ultrasound; but hopefully we’re looking at May 1st or a couple days after. Two other things I want to throw into that schedule:
May 6 – My 30th Birthday
May 14 – Mother’s Day
Yeah, so there’s that….
Right now on the schedule, I have 2 more weeks of birth control, so things are kind of slow. I just take two prenatal vitamins and a birth control pill each day. Last night, I was feeling a bit moody, and as I downed my day’s birth control, Brennen said, “You’ve done a good job keeping up with your pills so far.” He sounded surprised and a little too condescending, or at least I thought so. I gave him that go-to-hell look he loves and responded with something along the lines of “Thank you for your approval.” And then I threatened to make him start taking prenatal vitamins and all the placebo pills from my old birth control packs. I’m not sure what that would have accomplished, but it sounded like a good rant at the time. Brennen just laughed, knowing he succeeded at pushing my buttons!
Please continue to keep us in your thoughts and prayers over the next few weeks. Pray that my hips are ready for those upcoming injections. Pray that my uterus does her thing and gets ready to host Baby H for 9 months. And pray that this spring, we get the best news yet!